Cognitive dissonance Checklist for survivors of Narcissistic relationships

Cognitive dissonance Checklist for survivors of narcissistic relationships

Cognitive dissonance (CD) is the number one symptom in all Pathological love relationships (PLRs). This quick checklist helps to distinguish its unique features that will be a predominant treatment issue with the survivor.
CD exists on three levels: CD about herself, CD about him, and CD about the relationship, which are captured in the check list.

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Have you had sustained thought patterns that lasted at least six months that consist of:

1) Conflicting thoughts about your value system, character, and behavior since the relationship began that is different than how you were before the relationship?

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Yes No

2) Have your behaviors changed causing you anxiety or conflict since the relationship began such as you feel less decisive, are more questioning whether or not you are a victim, rescuer, or persecutor in the context of your intimate relationship and relationship dynamics?

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3) Confusion related to your intimate partner leaving and returning under conflicting circumstances, (i.e., he says he loves you, yet he threatens you, he promises change, love-bombs yet cheats, says is trustworthy but isn’t)

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4) Conflicting thoughts about the value system, character, and behavior of your partner?

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Scoring CD Checklist
Yes on #1 = CD about yourself
Yes on #2 = CD about the relationship
Yes on #3 = CD about him
Yes on #4 = CD about him