Narcissist Red Flag Checklist - MARK ZAUSS - THERAPY

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Are you trying to learn if you are married to, related to or dating or working with a narcissist?
We have compiled a checklist of many of the behaviors, patterns of a narcissist. Use this
checklist as a guide to test if you have been unlucky enough to come across someone with
this personality disorder. The more checks the closer you are to the reality that you need to
protect yourself and go no contact with this person.

Please complete this Redflag checklist and press the submit button. The results will securely go to Mark.

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How They Act

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Rushing Intimacy – soul mate scam Charming Behavior never changes Status oriented Chronic lying Reckless and impulsive

What Happens in the relationship

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You were targeted as good supply Lovebombing Mirroring back at you what you are looking for Friends love them or hate them Triangulation Managed down expectations Uses guilt and pity ploys Degrades you Gaslighting you Smear campaigns Hoovering (repeat of lovebombing to get you back) They isolate you Cognitive dissonance Grooming victims Ghosting

Patterns to Watch For - Self Awareness!

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You have a feeling something is wrong Lots of crazy people in their past Concern for public image No regard for rules or laws Never apologizes Demands trust Fragmented relationships No accountability Blames you for mistakes Poor financial management Cheating You feel you might be in danger Projecting Confusion – story changes Intrusive & controlling Isolation Anger when confronted Double standards Alcohol and drug use No responsibility – blame others Two faced, critical of others behind back Acts differently in public and private Lives in a fantasy world Distorts facts to suit their needs Provokes and then blames Circular conversations – word salad Condescending Shaming Always the victim Insults – smirks – teases - tortures you They can have different personas around different people Feel like you are walking on eggshells They have a fake personality in public Doesn’t have long term friends Might not have a relationship with their family Hostile reaction to attention and credit given to others Your feelings and emotions are not validated or allowed Twists your words in arguments You fear any fight could end the relationship Your words are used against you They provoke guilt in you You always fall short of their expectations They talk badly of past relationships yet visit with them to make you jealous Drama follows them but they blame you They thrive on drama and have an ample supply They must be right Points out your imperfections Remembers things you did years ago and brings them up in arguments Fraud is often something victims will see They know how to push your buttons Broken promises Uses your friends and family as flying monkeys (Turn them against you) They might constantly correct you – nothing is right Control of your spending Belittle your accomplishments Often, they cannot laugh at themselves If someone goes against them – they fight to kill Do they accuse you of things you didn’t do? Gaslighting They use the silent treatment as control Alienation of children to the other parent Lacks integrity with others Boasts about themselves (untrue claims) Wants you to make their life better Inconsistent details of their past They withhold attention as manipulation They do not like parties for others because they are not the center of attention You find yourself looking up what a narcissist is – detective They slander you – smear campaigns Facebombing – they attach themselves to your friends on facebook Uses social media to provoke jealously with their ex’s They get bored easily Often are compulsive about having the latest greatest technology Paints victims as unstable Forces sexual desires Focuses on your imperfections but ignore their own. Uses jokes to insult you and wear you down Ruled by money and they want yours They rewrite history to suit them Often hyper emotional is a role they play to manipulate Want to be recognized as a genius

Personality Traits

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Big ego - superior Craves power and control Self-centered Entitlement Great actors taking on roles we call masks Compares you to everyone in their life (good and then bad) Uses children as a pawn Moves on quickly Few personal possessions

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